Think of some good questions to get her thinking. Here are a few to start:
Does she think it’s fair that middle class people have to work not only to support their own families but also to support the families of others who won’t work?
Does she think that people who are able bodied but won’t work set a good example for their children?
Does she think self respect and dignity come from accepting handouts from others or that it comes from achieving success from the sweat of your own brow?
Does she think it’s acceptable that a person who won’t work receives government benefits that exceed what a full time average wage earner brings home?
Those are good though provoking questions,
but like most sheeperal, she doesn’t want to be “thought-provoked”.
Her advocacy is her righteousness,
and pointing out failures in what she advocates for
is a direct, personal attack on that righteousness.