I tried to train her not to claw the furniture with a squirt gun. She thought it was a game. If she wants to be petted she wants it NOW. If not she grabs your hand with her claws and pulls it to her. Yesterday for some reason she clawed my daughter twice, set back and growled.
She’s not mean all the time. When I watch TV she lays on my lap and watches until she falls asleep. At night she stretches out beside me in bed and sleeps.
Have you tried anti claw spray? Claw cap things? Cat scratch posts ?