I don’t favor having my cat’s toes cut off but I’ll have to have it done soon. She shredded my old furniture and is well on her way to shredding my new overstuffed leather furniture. She also attacks and claws visitors including my daughter. I’ll be moving in with her in a few months and have to get it done before then.
Hmm.
You might consider taking your cat to the vet. And have her put to sleep.
Or take it to a shelter and let come what may.
If your cat is not trained now and has unfriendly unsocial behavoir, then just wait till after you declaw it.
If you think my two options are very upsetting - wait till you see what declawing does to her. As well as moving.