[Gaffer]

You always, ALWAYS! check for the ‘package’ or the Adam’s Apple the first chance you get. Especially before you get to the swappin’ spit stage.

[Boogieman]

Or, use the “raspberry jam” test. If they can open a tightly sealed jar with their bare hands, run!

[Stormdog]

“You always, ALWAYS! check for the ‘package’ or the Adam’s Apple the first chance you get. Especially before you get to the swappin’ spit stage.”

Just check the hands. A male’s ring finger is longer than the index finger. A female’s index finger is longer than the ring finger.