I’m really too upset to ignore this, so I will write an email. I let the first time or two go by, but I don’t it made noted that it is not appreciated.
“I’m really too upset to ignore this, so I will write an email.”
Go for the meeting. An email is way too easy to ignore. A meeting means you really mean business, and it’s a lot harder to file it under “just another obnoxious parent”.
OK.
1. Check the syllabus against the textbook.
2. Check the homework and quizzes against the syllabus.
3. Suggest posing questions that require viewing alternate viewpoints without having the questions be argumentative.
4. Sit in on a class, if possible. Speak to teacher.
5. Meet with principal and priest.
6. Meet with diocese.
7. Remove child or get another teacher or arrange for individual studies.
8. Drop class and go to summer school.
9. Homeschool.
10. Hire a lawyer and sue.
If at all possible, gather evidence, as though you are both in enemy territory. Memorize sentences, memorize test questions vis a vis state-administered tests, and keep records.
Play the game - use the right buzz words - say you want assurances that your daughter wont be descriminated against or bullied by the teacher for having a different belief. Be sure the principal is on the hook if any tests or papers are graded unfairly- let him/her know you will follow up and if you get any sort of negative response from either the principal or teacher, ask who is next in line - School Board?