How old are the kids? If the Graysons have been married 25+ years, wondering how old the kids are.
The story indicates they are in public schools and on the free lunch program. His $10,000 a month are utilities and mortgage, which is quite hefty given the size of the home.
I saw a picture of dad, mom and what I assume to be their youngest daughter. She looks like she was 9 to 11 at the time so she would be well into her teens now.