I oppose gay marriage totally. Its advocates went beyond all reason when they weren't satisfied with civil unions to protect their legal rights. But it's not in our hands. The courts have taken it upon themselves to decide. What I do oppose is courts that have so badly distorted our government.
But let's not let it be the social issue the puppet masters trot out every four years to turn us against each other. Let's focus on the invasion (legal and illegal) of the US.
It is in our hands, that is how Obama has simply ordered their greatest victories.
The President runs the Executive branch, and legislation makes law, if you oppose gay marriage and want to prevent polygamy, then rejoin the fight.