Hopefully your wife has more common sense than you do. But if not, we appreciate she is not an armed agent of the government.
BTW, I noted you evaded most all the questions and made statements to the questions instead of answering them.
Very evasive but very predictable.
I can't answer any of the questions because I was not there. All I have available is what I can see in the video. What I do see in the video does not bode well for the fired & indicted State Trooper. What I do not see, but hopefully the DA & his boss saw, may fill in the missing pieces. Thus all I can offer is more questions because I have more questions.
BTW, common-sense tells me to not make decisions without knowing more facts. Also, dispatchers are sworn officers of the law and may carry guns. She doesn't but she could if she wanted to. It would require her to go to post, where they get training and certification, which she has no desire to do.