Do they know me? Do I know them? Are they reading this thread?
If a family member is on this thread I will apologize profusely. Are they on this thread?
You might be surprised who finds FR threads discussing something near and dear to them. I know I have been in the past. These threads are public, you know.
Do you typically use the excuse of someone not being present to slander and gossip about that person? What does Christianity have to say about that?