I’m the same way, I’d trade places with any of my kids too so they could avoid pain and sickness. As we speak my youngest (4) is in the hospital with my wife because something has been going on with her knee for over a week and she’s been in a great deal of pain. I’d way rather that was me.
I know how you feel and I used to feel the same way, too. Now, I think that suffering’s a big blessing. It can keep your heart and mind focused on Jesus, as well as teach valuable lessons on enduring and overcoming despite it all.
I am certain this guys parents felt the same way, but then the inspiration wouldn’t have been a gift to the rest of us.