I know how you feel and I used to feel the same way, too. Now, I think that suffering’s a big blessing. It can keep your heart and mind focused on Jesus, as well as teach valuable lessons on enduring and overcoming despite it all.
I am certain this guys parents felt the same way, but then the inspiration wouldn’t have been a gift to the rest of us.
Oh yes, I know God uses our circumstances for the greater good. People will ask why do bad things happen to good people? I think it’s because God is molding us to be used for his purpose. If every Christian was perfect and had a perfect life, how would those people reach those that are suffering, in pain, emotionally wounded? I think he puts us through our paces so that we can indeed find common ground, so we can relate, and so we can show true empathy.
I just pray and pray that I am able to be the strong leader my wife and kids need.