Fag hags are usually grotesque women who are adored and worshipped by gay men - not the other way around. Here are some examples: Judy in her last years, once the queen of fag hags, now forgotten, Liza, the daughter, Kay Thompson (yikes!), Elaine Stritch (yikes!), Bette Davis, Joan Crawford, Patti Lupone, Lea DeLaria (yikes!), the Charles Busch collaborator, Julie Halston, and many, many more. I’m sure there is a whole new set of them out there but I always find them so repulsive I try to avoid even seeing a photograph of them...
Ah, Lady Gaga types and the like. Women who gay men flock to, not the sad, pathetic ones who flock to them. Got it. Thanks!