Thanks for letting me whine. :)
You can whine to me any time you like! ;-)
I’m curious. Did they do full surgery on your shoulder where they cut your shoulder open? The reason I ask is that Mrs. spel had arthroscopic surgery. Just one small hole in the front of her shoulder and one small hole in the back of her shoulder for the camera to view inside. If you had full surgery then the arthroscopic surgery on her shoulder may account for her quick recovery and the inverse for why your recovery has been so slow.
(((( HUGS ))))