Capitalize this: you’re wrong.
Wrong?
How old are you? I ask because you seem ignorant of recent history. Look at LBJ and his Great Society. Replacing the father with a welfare check was the objective and boy did they meet that one. Plus a thousand more.
Its very simple here. Either you support and approve of the Welfare State or you support DOMA and all other laws that supported marriage and made America a great nation for 200 years.