Not ‘my’ judgement you need be worrying about. BTW, I’m not ‘judging’ anything. I’m stating a fact. Several actually. But since you brought it up, it sounds an awful lot like ‘don’t judge me”, which is a famous liberal phrase, as you know, designed to deflect other people’s opinions while bulling along in self righteousness.
A neutron bomb would be cleaner...
My fervent prayer is you one day understand the situation I am in.
God bless you and your family.