My fervent prayer is you one day understand the situation I am in.
God bless you and your family.
I have been in your situation. Once taking care of a 29 yo wife that died of cancer leaving me a single parent, and later caring for my grandmother who made it to 94. Both cases involved unplanned big moves and financial devastation I had to bust ass to recover from.
My grandmother probably had 20 years added to her life because of that move. So I am not talking hypothetical.
If you believe the SHTF is coming soon, then you have a responsibility to move and live. If you don’t, as I said...good luck to you.