Deaths usually slow you down...not aggravate you. And the deaths were months ago.
But his brain/mind were muddled by the meds & Army Admin. From what I can glean from the reporting he had tried to work with in the system, but some of the meds [specifically the SSRI’s ie Prozac] can make things very bad & magnify the problem/s you see. They warp your perspective on the world.
death and the ensuing grief of a loved one affects everyone differently. to claim to know how death affects someone is narcissistic. Remember we are talking about a mentally ill man here.
the passage of months is not a long time to move through the grief process, it can take years. My mother died when I was only 17 years old and I was a mentally stable teenager and yet my grief lasted much more than “months”
Sounds as though this tragedy could have been prevented if the mental health professionals had been doing a little more than throwing pills at him, but that often the way psychiatry treats the mentally ill these days. The professionals handling his care should have known he was a danger to himself and others and had him hospitalized.