Posted on 03/28/2014 4:41:32 AM PDT by YourAdHere
“How many times have we heard successful African-American women complain they can’t find a good man? Everyone has an opinion on the black man shortage, but none of the so-called relationship experts offer real solutions…
Is it possible that we have been missing an important match? Yes! Jewish men make wonderful husbands… as well as fantastic lovers. This book… sheds light on why successful black women, and career gals in general, and Jewish men are very compatible…
In summary, to find Mr. Right, women must date with quality in mind, such as character traits and values, they should be open to interracial dating, and apply faith in dating.”
--Excerpted from the Introduction (pages xiii-xiv)
Sometimes, a sister has to kiss a lot of frogs before finding her soul mate. In Dr. Nazaree Hines-Starr’s case, she had to date a lot of “scumbags,” as she puts it. As a Black woman, she had trouble meeting single guys who were at her level “emotionally, academically or professionally.” Unfortunately, most of the available African-American men she met “had managed to waste years that should have been spent in college or developing a career, chasing skirts, getting arrested, or playing video games.”
Moreover, many had “accumulated baggage” such as “rap sheets” and “baby-mama drama.” And even the rare brother who had his act together was never serious about settling down and starting a family.
So, rather than lower her standards by entertaining the advances of commitment-phobic losers from a lower socioeconomic class, Nazaree decided to expand her pool of potential suitors to include men who might not be Christian or African-American.
Lo and behold, she met her future husband over the internet at an online dating website. Although Michael was white and Jewish, love blossomed across the color and religion lines, and the couple has since married and welcomed a baby boy, Hayden.
Nazaree chronicles her perils in the battle-of-the-sexes and exactly how she emerged victorious with the perfect alpha male on her arm in “Why Every Black Woman Should Marry a Jewish Man.” The author, a gifted writer but a pharmacist by trade, is surprisingly forthcoming in her combination memoir/how-to tome whose title speaks for itself.
Beginning with Chapter One, “Scumbag Files,” she takes delight in laying out the lessons she learned from a string of dates from hell. By Chapter Eight, she’s done with dishing the dirt and is ready to extol the virtues of taking a dip in the snow, so to speak—entering a relationship with a proverbial good Jewish boy.
Why? First of all, you don’t have to worry that he might be on the “down-low,” because Jewish culture isn’t homophobic. Secondly, Jewish men generally graduate from college, and they aren’t looking for someone to support them.
Furthermore, they “marry BEFORE making babies,” and “they don’t display their underwear in public.” Plus, they’re practical financially and don’t have a need to preen in macho fashion. And last but not least, they know how to please a partner in bed. The sum appears to be a proven approach for open-minded sisters in search of their Prince Charming.
Tommy Sotomayor, is that you?
“.....we heard successful African-American women complain they can’t find a good man?”......
There are a lot of good black men out there but the field is limited by the number of black mothers who could give a rats behind what their sons become. Such “mothers” are all for themselves and the hell with the kids. It will take generations to get that issue resolved and perhaps it never will be.
What amazes me is the number of white women who pick black men for their “mates”.
Well, Obama is gay. So it makes complete sense for him to be attracted to a masculine woman, since she exhibits the masculine traits he prefers.
Is that because they would turn down the attentions of successful attractive white men, or because the only white men who ever display an attraction for them, are men who are at the bottom of the barrel?
I don’t know the “why” of it,
but this was a study done of who responds to whom on online dating sites.
http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/chat/3097390/posts?page=68
You guys are missing something. I think black women are beautiful. Problem is when they get older. Their butts look like breadbaskets hanging over the side. At least they don’t sag.
Obesity is mostly a sign of poverty (I know, it seems counter intuitive, but it’s true)
And to be even less diplomatic, entitlement-crazed black women think Jewish men have money. Hope all the guys who marry these materialistic broads get airtight pre-nups.
> White Christian culture isn’t far behind; this is learned behavior not DNA
Can’t disagree with you there
“This article therefore is very weird, it does not compute.”
My impression too. I have seen this article before. I know one Jewish guy who hooked up with a black woman. He also collected Nazi memorabilia. One of the most driven and effective people I have ever known and to all appearances quite content. Liked him a lot. Did not understand him.
Yep. I’ve heard the discussions from aspiring golddiggers. They were idling in the breakroom on a 90 minute lunch. The object of their speculations (and he was Jewish) was out front at the counter making sales. He was barely cognizant of their existence. Vague moving obstacles that had to be stepped around to get work done.
I'm dubious of the assumtion that her previous suitors were Christian in any sense other than their grandmothers sometimes attend services at a building with a cross on it.
“attend services at a building with a cross on it”
That passes muster in MANY circles now days. Not the one that counts, of course, but sufficient for lowest common denominator social mixing.
Aaand I reread the article just to make 100% sure, and it is as I recall. The author mentions nothing, not one thing, that black females bring to the table. Nothing.
Now, that there is what we call "writing"!
I bump your post.
Bigtime.
It’s rude to say it but female buppies bring nothing but THEIR BIG MOUTHS! And, er, bad tipping habits and rude behavior to retail people...
I had a discussion with a very attractive researcher whose research agrees with the Jew = best husband. She also found that Native Americans are the best lovers. She finally got around to asking my name. I told her
Tonto Rubenstein.
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