Selfishness is a point of view, economic reality is difficult to reconcile in this point of time relative to the society we have developed.
You can rationalize your point of view all you want, but what makes your point of view superior to that of those you wish to impose your beliefs upon?
Bologna! They want the toys and the vacations and they don’t care to be bothered with the trouble of having kids.
Kids are work. Most people don’t care for the work, they care for the fun. Vacations, new cars and big houses are fun.
I am not imposing my beliefs. I am simply pointing out the facts that are obvious to anyone that can see. If anyone is rationalizing it is you.
Besides, you don’t know anything about me. Most people have no idea of what real economic reality is. I have more than my share of knowledge about the economic realities of life and a new car and a big house are luxury items. Children should be looked at as a blessing and a reward, not an economic problem.