http://legaltimes.typepad.com/files/edva-ssm-opinion.pdf
"Government interests in perpetuating traditions, shielding state matters from federal interference, and favoring one model of parenting over others must yield to this country's cherished protections that ensure the exercise of the private choices of the individual citizen regarding love and family."
U.S. District Judge Arenda L. Wright Allen
These people do not want equality - they claim they have the extraordinary right to modify the meaning of words.
Thus we see the fruit of Relativism. 100% anti law. 100% perfect for dictatorships.