Yes, and that is any woman’s choice of course. But if a woman chooses to wear makeup, nice clothes, shoes and hair, spending obscene amounts on same, and also “unabashedly” objectifying potential suitors, a man, a real man, should not use this as an excuse to objectify women.
That is my point really, thank you for giving me an opportunity to make it again in other words.
My point is that “objectification” is like attention deficit disorder, porn addiction, and the glass ceiling; just another in the long string of women’s efforts to pathologize that which they find distasteful, inconvenient, or threatening.