In Romans 1:18, 19 - there’s the special problem that is being addressed ...
18 For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who suppress the truth in unrighteousness,
19 because what may be known of God is manifest in them, for God has shown it to them.
Key in on ... “ ... who suppress the truth in unrighteousness” ... and also the fact that “God has shown it to them.”
AND THEREFORE ... as a result of THAT PARTICULAR ISSUE ... we see ...
24 Therefore God also gave them up to uncleanness, in the lusts of their hearts, to dishonor their bodies among themselves,
25 who exchanged the truth of God for the lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen.
26 For this reason God gave them up to vile passions. For even their women exchanged the natural use for what is against nature.
27 Likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust for one another, men with men committing what is shameful, and receiving in themselves the penalty of their error which was due.
In other words HOMOSEXUALITY IS THE JUDGEMENT, itself (in addition to being a sin).
That makes Homosexuality a unique sin - in which it is a JUDGEMENT ITSELF (in and of itself) in addition to being a sin.
I think you are saying that homosexuality creates a miserable existence where their life has no real joy except the substitution of joy for the indulgence of their passions. They have turned away from God’s natural plan for a substitute which eliminates the chance of a wonderful experience as biological parents of children but also their genetics from the gene pool. They are what I call zombies of the Culture of Death.