If something like this ever happens to my child, they can all take their false condolences and shove it! I would find all those responsible and carry their severed heads out the hospital door.
excerpt from link: McMath had gone to Children’s Hospital Oakland on December 9 to have her tonsils removed to cure a sleep apnea problem. Sealey told KTVU that McMath had trouble breathing and suffered “an enormous amount of bleeding” after the procedure. Then, on Thursday, McMath went into cardiac arrest, and was declared brain dead.
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This child had an outpatient procedure and Monday and would normally go home the same day yet she had massive bleeding and cardiac arrest on Thursday...
It’s hard to tell if she was discharged or held for observation so will wait for more facts.
Either way, if a patient ever told me they were afraid of dying...surgery cancelled if elective. Bless this little girl and her family.