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Why I Wouldn't See 12 Years a Slave With a White Person
The Atlantic ^ | November 27, 2013 | Enuma Okoro

Posted on 11/27/2013 4:45:00 PM PST by 2ndDivisionVet

I’m not a racist. But I do have a race problem. I finally owned up to it as I was anticipating seeing 12 Years a Slave. In the weeks leading up to its opening in my state of North Carolina, I tried to think of whom among my friends I could see this film with. I have a number of racially and ethnically diverse friends and acquaintances who would love to see it, and yet, I knew I could only see this movie alone or with another dark-skinned person.

This is hard to admit. I will hurt the feelings of people I love. But isn’t confession the first step to being reconciled? I have good, healthy friendships with a range of people, but I could not think of one white person where I live with whom I would feel emotionally safe enough to see this particular movie about slavery. I did not want to have to entertain any of the likely responses from anyone who could not see themselves in the skin of the enslaved men and women on the screen. I had no desire to dissect the film politically and theologically, engage in well-meaning social commentary, marvel at the history conveyed through the movie, or grieve over what was done to black people.

I did not want the burden of the social translations that black people so often have to do automatically on so many internal levels while engaging in discourse with whites in this country. There are things we learn to do almost subconsciously in order to keep some whites comfortable enough around our blackness. Things like gauging their actual level of interest or understanding of black culture in order to know how far to take a particular conversation....

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To: golux

There were thousands of slave owners who were black.

Some blacks were slave breeders. They sold their own children.

I bet this movie doesn’t cover that uncomfortable fact.


41 posted on 11/27/2013 5:26:58 PM PST by ladyjane
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To: ought-six

That’s not what this thread is about. Besides, what should she end a sentence with? Perhaps you ought to pack it in. English grammar rules are screwed up.


42 posted on 11/27/2013 5:27:11 PM PST by ExGeeEye (The enemy's gate is down...and to the left.)
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To: CatherineofAragon; 2ndDivisionVet
I'm not trying to stir up sympathy. I'm just letting you know, for what it's worth, this person is offering up a glimpse into the fact that race issues are still prevalent with most in the black communities, even though we've made considerable progress.

In fact, I think current policies under this administration have taken us back decades in relations between the races. It's time EVERYONE was treated equally in this country as our founders intended.

43 posted on 11/27/2013 5:30:05 PM PST by Errant
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To: 2ndDivisionVet

Furthermore (from an earlier post today, so data are unverified):
1. 13th Amendment — Abolished Slavery. 100% Republican Support; 23% Democrat Support.
2. 14th Amendment — Gave Citizenship to Freed Slaves. 94% Republican Support; 0% Democrat Support.
3. 15th Amendment — Right to Vote for All. 100% Republican Support; 0% Democrat Support.


44 posted on 11/27/2013 5:30:07 PM PST by ProtectOurFreedom
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To: Nifster

Agree


45 posted on 11/27/2013 5:30:39 PM PST by Errant
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To: ProtectOurFreedom

Don’t forget the Civil Rights Act.


46 posted on 11/27/2013 5:31:08 PM PST by 2ndDivisionVet ("Of the 4 wars in my lifetime none came about because the US was too strong." Reagan)
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To: Errant
Most people don't have a clue how black folk feel

It is very clear how black people feel. Many of them are very angry and hate all white people. No mystery.

47 posted on 11/27/2013 5:33:11 PM PST by ladyjane
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To: Errant

Did someone ground all airliners, trains, buses, cars, motorcycles and ships? If not, then they are quite free to leave should they not like the opportunities afforded them in the United States of America. PERIOD.


48 posted on 11/27/2013 5:34:49 PM PST by 2ndDivisionVet ("Of the 4 wars in my lifetime none came about because the US was too strong." Reagan)
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To: E. Pluribus Unum

“I’m not a racist.”

“If you like your [insurance] plan, you can keep it.”


49 posted on 11/27/2013 5:37:10 PM PST by vladimir998
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To: Errant
"I'm not trying to stir up sympathy. I'm just letting you know, for what it's worth, this person is offering up a glimpse into the fact that race issues are still prevalent with most in the black communities, even though we've made considerable progress."

I think everyone is pretty aware of the fact that race issues are prevalent with blacks. As I said, they're broken records on the subject. Everything is seen through the prism of race.

I do agree with you that Obama's administration has made things even worse.

50 posted on 11/27/2013 5:37:33 PM PST by CatherineofAragon ((Support Christian white males----the architects of the jewel known as Western Civilization.))
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To: 2ndDivisionVet

this is the best poster i’ve seen on this issue in a long time.

there can be a whole series of these on all sorts of issues, all ending with point 7.


51 posted on 11/27/2013 5:41:55 PM PST by Secret Agent Man (Gone Galt; Not averse to Going Bronson.)
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To: CaptainK

I doubt if she has adult friends of any color who would want to go see any movie with her.

She is emotionally about 11 years old.


52 posted on 11/27/2013 5:46:01 PM PST by miserare (Sebelius is Obama's Mengele.)
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To: 2ndDivisionVet

Black people seem to honestly believe that white people today have to apologize for slavery 150 years ago.


53 posted on 11/27/2013 5:49:42 PM PST by Trailerpark Badass (There should be a whole lot more going on than throwing bleach, said one woman.)
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To: Errant
I'm just letting you know, for what it's worth, this person is offering up a glimpse into the fact that race issues are still prevalent with most in the black communities, even though we've made considerable progress.

I care as much about them as they care about my ancient white butt. The difference is that the statistical probability of my group harming a black person approaches zero. On the other hand, I have to keep my head on a swivel in a city. What an annoying gasbag she is.

54 posted on 11/27/2013 5:52:18 PM PST by Stentor
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To: Trailerpark Badass

Probably half the whites in this country are descended from people who arrived after the civil war.


55 posted on 11/27/2013 5:52:51 PM PST by 2ndDivisionVet ("Of the 4 wars in my lifetime none came about because the US was too strong." Reagan)
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To: golux

In other words she is an educated black racist idiot.


56 posted on 11/27/2013 5:54:12 PM PST by Venturer (Keep Obama and you aint seen nothing yet.)
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To: Errant

Yeah well we white folks have feelings too, Do you think any black gives a flying ****?


57 posted on 11/27/2013 5:55:26 PM PST by Venturer (Keep Obama and you aint seen nothing yet.)
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To: JoeProBono

Oh Man, that frightened me.


58 posted on 11/27/2013 5:57:24 PM PST by Venturer (Keep Obama and you aint seen nothing yet.)
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To: 2ndDivisionVet
Hope she's no offended, but I don't want to go to the movies with her either.

As a first generation American from Nigeria she clearly has no ancestral connection to slavery in America. Nigeria being a major slave trading nation back in the day, she may well have connections with slave traders.

59 posted on 11/27/2013 5:57:37 PM PST by SJackson (the Democrats take back control, we donÂ’t make (this) kind of naked power grab, J Biden)
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To: 2ndDivisionVet
I have a number of racially and ethnically diverse friends and acquaintances who would love to see it...

I doubt it...I really doubt it.

60 posted on 11/27/2013 6:00:09 PM PST by who knows what evil? (G-d saved more animals than people on the ark...www.siameserescue.org.)
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