Ive known guys where the wife, pressured by her parents, gets restraining orders, gets the guy arrested etc. Then she is showing up everywhere to have sex with him, Thanksgiving at his parents’ house, and chiding him to move back in with her WITHOUT removing the restraining order!
This way she can have him locked up at any whim. This stuff happens a lot.
I’m not saying men don’t also throw fits, make threats etc. but these new laws are abused.
Ive seen women recant rape accusations, etc. Things can get ugly and the law no longer realizes people make stuff up. It’s presumed the man is evil and the judges treat him that way.
The law is intentionally discriminatory against men in favor of women. The name of the law--the Violence Against Women Act--says it all, even though statistically men are as likely to be victims of domestic violence as women.