Goodness! Exactly the same happened to a buddy. I was over at his house for dinner when I suddenly realized his wife was hitting on a guy who had trouble tattooed all over him. A few months later she moved in with this in-and-out-of-prison deadbeat. (He was a handsome deadbeat, but gee.)
I won’t mention the thoughts that have gone thru my mind about the bum. He even kicked his old girlfriend out when my wife moved in. She hit him in the face with a fire extinguisher.
Too bad she didn’t hit him hard enough and cave his skull in.
To me it looks like a classic case of ‘Meth Head’ boyfriend. 10-1 mama’s on the pipe.
This happens to women too. I do feel for the poor guys that get stuck paying huge child support payments to children that are the product of their wife’s affair(s).