Amen all you said. Now that I have kids, I actually have to put at least two second’s worth of thought into things, and explain the rationale behind previously impulsive actions. I would hope to explain the N word situation to my kid at least half as well as you put it here.
Thank you Hegewisch Dupa. I appreciate it.
BTW: Christ, Wife, Parents, Kids, Friends, Associates, Heros...
If something can survive these filters with an honest assessment, then it’s probably okay.
Good luck with that. :^)