How does condoning a behavior which will send someone to hell act as “loving them”? It is as far as one can get from love. I note Jesus (God) said “If you love me you will keep my commandments”. It is not love to encourage someone on a road to hell but the farthest thing from it.
Look up "love" in your dictionary. One meaning is "a feeling of brotherhood and good will toward other people."
In actuality, hate is as far as one can get from love.