Look up "love" in your dictionary. One meaning is "a feeling of brotherhood and good will toward other people."
In actuality, hate is as far as one can get from love.
You should look at your won definition. My (and the Bible's) criticism is directed at a behavior not any individual. (ie. "other people") You are just trying to rationalize sin by calling any criticism of it hate. A common leftist and reprobate tactic. One can hate the sin and love the sinner. Homosexual sex is a sin which will send one to hell if they don't repent of it; "No homosexual will enter the Kingdom of Heaven" 1Cor 6. Gay is a behavior not an identity. A behavior the bible refers to as an "abomination". Further, Christ stated that he "hated" sinful behavior.