My daughter moved out when she was 18 so I had no control over her. We had some rough times but I am so proud of her now. She is working full time and going to college and hopes to become an RN.
My heart truly hurts for you.
My kid wanted to be a physical therapist.
I’d jokingly told her “Imformation Extraction Specialist/Interrogation Technician” was the proper job designation.