I was a school counselor and went to a state convention and one night a fellow wanted me to go with him for that kind of activity. I told him sure, if you agree in writing to continue to pay for my son's schooling at Rice University and keep me in the style to which I am accustomed. He said he couldn't afford to do that, and he left. Affairs have consequences and this fellow didn't measure up. I had a wonderful husband and no one could be better than he was to me. That fellow didn't have a chance.
Good for you!
jm76