Isn't that better than being thought of as one being FULL of crap; like me??
Actually; you get the ping because you KNOW a lot about the history and lifestyle, and can share a lot of info about it.
Every now and then we have visits from people that actually have begun to agree with our point of view and have started cleaning things up. The Bishops wife stopped by yesterday and volunteered to help with our daughters wedding. The Relief Society brings breads and muffins every year during our big event to go with the Tbird Coffee.
So now after fourteen years in the community and not stepping once into the Ward, people are starting to come around. And I will never do battle over any religious topic.