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Not horse pucky. If men were only looking for sexual release, then any woman would do and there are more women in the world than men.

Not any woman in the world would do for me. And the idea I wanted to get a woman pregnant in high school is laughable. The idea all guys trying to score in high school are always looking to reproduce, is an idea that's woefully lacking a connection to reality.

But men aren’t just looking for sexual release no matter what their big head is telling them, their little head is focused on making a baby. Which is why men primarily seek young fertile females as partners and that is a much smaller pool of potentially willing partners.

Most men are roaming before they settle down. They ARE NOT looking to take on responsibility, and thus they ARE NOT looking to make a girl pregnant. Their little head is focused on feeling good, nothing else. The idea that men are seeking young fertile females is just plain silly. They're looking for a hottie for personal gratification, and the trophy effect. The fertility and robustness just comes along with the package. The high school kid generally wants to score. That's primarily what they're thinking if they aren't snoring. And if they aren't getting any, snoring isn't even a safe period of the day. Young men are practically posessed, the drive is so strong. And the drive is probably ingraned biology, but that is not what is primarily on a young man's mind, or his little friend's mind. Not one single young man I knew, was looking to reproduce at that time in our lives. ZERO!

Scoring, scoring, scoring, scoring...

Not, pregnancy, pregnancy, pregnancy...

The biological imperative for women is quite different. Almost all men are fertile right up until they keel over in old age. So it’s not what we look for. Since pregnancy and childrearing leave women vulnerable and disadvantaged because of the significant physical and time investment, we seek partners that have the markers that indicate safety, stability and resources.

I agree with that.

The fact that men are attracted to the hottie with all the biological markers of fertility tells you that despite what men think in their big head about scoring and sexual pleasure, the little head is directing them toward procreation, procreation, procreation.

Hollywood and the fashion world have been pushing bony, skinny assed androgynous looking women since Twiggy, yet all the research says men still prefer the “robust package” that signals fertility because it’s HARDWIRED.

You can pretend men don’t have a biological imperative hardwired into their brain or try to wish it away, but intellectual subterfuge doesn’t make biology go away.