The fact that you posted this on FR indicates to me that the ESTRANGED has made the right choice and is no longer with you. So, it would be best if you stayed out of her life as much as possible.
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Years ago before my father died, he was with a new doctor, an onocologist, and my brother for a first appointment. The doc turned to my father and said, Mr. Chickensoupdad, I see you live with your son.
My father looked into the doc’s eyes and said, Get this straight, my son lives with ME!
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I made the right choice of removing the ESTRANGED from my young children’s lives. Judgement was very poor and there was risk for them.
I work very hard to build a wall around the ESTRANGED.
Screw the rest of the self-righteous comments. Weld yourself to the kidlets. She’ll have them poisoned if you don’t. F’EN BITCHES. So sue me or ban me if you can commentees.
Well I think it is a bad idea to post your personal life here and to use the tone that you do concerning the mother of your children.
And because you have it indicates a lack of good judgement on your part.