I haven’t seen one of those Ellen Degeneres ads in ages.
I have to admit they were very funny and (aside from what we know about Ellen) I saw nothing pro-gay in the ads.
I didn’t find the Ellen ads offensive, except for the knowledge that she is “out and proud.” However, my kids could watch that ad and not know anything about it.
However the “Father”’s Day and “Mother’”s day ads were very “in your face.”