I get it from them. Perhaps they should educate you. But then, I guess it would be a wasted effort on their part.
Ma’am, you may think that kind of attitude will impress guys, but guys with a mouth like yours usually find a way to have their ass beat.
I submit that they would agree with me. Shouldn't you at least have the (figurative) balls to ask. You have inherited or share their confidence, but not their skills. Of course, you did say firefights would scare the crap out of you, perhaps you are afraid of their judgement as well. A man would do it, this is an area a woman can compete equally, show them and ask.