Your profile page didn’t make mention of your sex. Okay, then take all those points you feel objection to and reverse them. I sure don’t want to come home to some fat slob wearing a woman beater shirt with a beer in his hand.
That’s not what husbands are....sounds like you might have neet a few loosers along the way like that....might want to up your standards.
The article said nothing about the guy whatsoever...it was completely focused on what a little girl would get from her father...clearly not a husband.
I think the point is that if you want a man that meets your list - then you better be a woman that strives to meet the same standard.
IOW - the devotion you describe doesn't happen in a vacuum devoid of outside influence. Rather it tends to be the result of mutual reciprocity.
Love works best as a dance of mutual partners.
Which of course is a much different than the dance style popular today: pole-dancing, g-strings, Chippendale's, etc...