No, I love men. Please don’t be offended, as I don’t know you at all. I was just going by what I have observed over my long adult life. Just trying to give you something to think about.
And please note that I said that the situations I outlined are usually one or the other and not both. Sounds like you don’t fit into situation #1.
I was more amused than offended. So many women who hate men now days.
Your mistake is basing today on your long life. The relationship between men and women has changed a lot even during my 35 years. Women aren’t the same as they used to be, and men will change themselves to win with women.
My singles group, fabulous women I wish were much younger, discuss the changes in relationships regularly.
It bothers me a lot to see so many christians date by the world’s standard.