LLS
You can’t “shop” in civil suits - you use the local venue of the plaintiff or the defendant, and the defendant gets preference.
The idea that someone who lives in Virginia can sue a Florida resident in a California or Hawaii or Alaska court is absurd.
As for “proving that she is a slut... “ the defendant doesn’t have to prove anything - the PLAINTIFF has to prove the defendant did an actionable wrong,
Then the PLAINTIFF has to prove they suffered harm from the action.