How I fight back seems to be your only concern, not the fact that I need to do so. You shouldn't concern yourself with such trivial matters and focus on the real issue.
If I was fighting to protect my character, I would fight with character. Thats all.
The more you talk the less character you seem to exhibit.
Perhaps you are simply too sensitive for a message board? I will leave you alone for awhile - you seem upset.
Once you see it used it's easy to see it in use the next time.
He's doing it on the other thread as well. He tries to steer the argument in a particular direction. He avoids other issues that are problematic, just like with my "Where is the "19"?" queries.