Your brother-in-law sounds like a typical selfish liberal homosexual with self-interests that he thinks can only be satisfied by cherry picking aspects of conservative politics. And it sounds like you agree with him.
Cherry Picking?? You do not know him... the only thing he is 'LIBERAL' is his love. He voted for Reagan in 1984 (when he became old enough to vote).
He goes to church - a CHRISTIAN CHURCH. He was in the Gulf War. He started his business without the help from the government. He hates how the MSM portrays gays on the news -- especially during pride parade.
I'm sorry if you disagree, but I doubt the GOP will survive. I'm first a FISCAL CONSERVATIVE with a STRONG ATTITUDE that the CONSTITUTION should be scaled back to the BILL OF RIGHTS!!