I’m with you. My personal rule of thumb is that I never shop on days that I wouldn’t want to work myself. That means Sundays and most holidays. My Saturdays are pretty busy, as a result!
I worked in the business for a time. When our employer (who had already filed a Chapter 11) floated a trial balloon on a conference call about opening on Thanksgiving, one store manager spoke up and said “Well, dammit, you’ve gotta draw the line somewhere!”
He got fired and we were open on Thanksgiving.
Black Friday is out of control. That incident a couple of years ago at the WalMart where an employee got trampled to death was utterly predictable.