No, your comment was totally out of line. It was cruel and utterly mean-spirited. Your attempt to gloss it over is pure chickensh*t.
What is cruel is jerks like you that are so full of hate that they cannot pass up a chance to jump in on something they don’t understand to add another hateful feather to their cap.
Removing emotional barriers is one of the most important steps on the path to health, and more often than not the victim has lived with the issue enough to have buried it like a rock inside of a pearl.
Of course you don’t care about that; all you want is to chalk up a point on your imaginary scorecard.