Isabel dropped a 100-year-old double oak on (or more accurately, through) our bedroom. It took six months and $60K worth of insurance to put everything right. We lived in the basement for most of that period.
oh my! We were fortunate. I have 60-80 foot trees near the home and I lost one large branch beyond the scatter. The circumference was about 2 feet on that branch but it landed harmlessly in the yard thank Heavens. The attic damage was substantial but not near what you went through.