I’m not saying deny reality. It is an uphill battle, no doubt. But sitting at home, crying about it accomplished nothing! I’m talking about the people who continously say it’s hopeless, no matter what, and who sit on the sidelines, at all times, and then say I told you so, when a Dim wins.
Then don’t bother with them or listen to them. That you do have control of.
I personally don’t bother with types like that...let them live in their own misery. I also don’t befriend them once their negativity reveals itself. However if they push it I’ll give them a reality check.....after they have to pick themsleves off the floor.
As you know those who are chronic complainers are NOT unhappy people....they sustain themselves by making others around them unhappy..which ‘satisfies’ their morbid outlook on life...they feel good about that.
So just don’t give them you’re time...