I believe a good marriage provides trust and confidence to really enjoy sex. And it does get better with time. No reason married sex can’t be exciting and something to look forward to, especially after the kids are grown!
This has got to be a female response. Let a man, who thinks about sex every ten minutes or so, suffer through a near celibate life for 18 years or more, and then expect him to think the person that caused this to be suddenly "sexy" because now, that the kids are gone, they feel like focusing some attention on him. As you can tell by the very high divorce rate of couples whose children have recently moved out, It doesn't work that way.
Wow, you mean sex is better in the context that it is SUPPOSED to be in?