Posted on 05/20/2011 7:40:16 AM PDT by ilovesarah2012
Although it counters popular perceptions that sex with one person will inevitably get boring and monotonous, married couples enjoy better sex than either sexually active single couples or cohabiting couples. "The most comprehensive and recent survey of sexuality" indicates that married couples enjoy sex and are better satisfied with their sex lives -- both emotionally and physically -- than are either sexually active single couples or cohabiting couples. Popenoe and Whitehead report, "Forty-two percent of wives said that they found sex extremely emotionally and physically satisfying, compared to just 31 percent of single women who had a sex partner. And, 48 percent of husbands said sex was extremely satisfying emotionally, compared to just 37 percent of cohabiting men." The researchers explained, "The higher level of commitment in marriage is probably the reason for the high level of reported sexual satisfaction; marital commitment contributes to a greater sense of trust and security, less drug and alcohol-infused sex, and more mutual communication between the couple."
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See what you have there is considered an AFC (Average Frustrated Chump). These guys probably know nothing about sex, how the mind IS sex, or anything important about female anatomy. Their wives are suffering and WILL cheat on them without remose or guilt.
What I meant above is for the men WITHOUT aggressive wives tht aren’t satisfied. All women are aggressive if they trust their man in the bedroom, you just have to know how to bring it to the surface.
“Aggressive” women are more fun to be married to. Of course if you get your technique down the wife will become “aggressive”. When sex for the woman is an exercise of tolerance they tend not to seek it, when they’re going to have as much fun as their man they’ll seek it, and everybody gets to be satisfied.
You make 100% sense.
Not.
“Let a man, who thinks about sex every ten minutes or so, suffer through a near celibate life for 18 years or more, and then expect him to think the person that caused this to be suddenly “sexy” because now, that the kids are gone, they feel like focusing some attention on him.”
You’re missing the point.
Kids get in the way. Nothing is more sexy than being able to have spontaneous sex with the bedroom door wide open and loudly singing opera at the appropriate moment after years of having to plan around the kids.
>Mutual trust is essential to good sex and a good marriage.
Interestingly humans are the only mammal which procreate frontally, in a literal sense face-to-face, and experience shows that for any intercourse (such as a simple talk, but even on the technical side like computer-networking) is based on trust.
Actually dolphins and porcupines also do
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