I'd trust Jim with my personal info, but very few else here. If you really want to go down that road, I would be amenable to providing Jim with my Facebook and Linked in account info, as well as my mailing address and a copy of my DD-214, to verify who I am and that what I say is true.
Here's the Church we were married in. Pastor Fragodt performed the service in their former Church building before the new one was built. We no longer attend services there because of their continued insistence of following the ELCA on their stance on gay pastors.
You offered yourself as proof of your argument. No one demanded it, to my knowledge.
This is a forum. People express their opinions. I don’t recall anyone other than you claiming that their life was “proof” of their opinion. If you’d like to involve Jim further in your arguments, feel free.