You offered yourself as proof of your argument. No one demanded it, to my knowledge.
This is a forum. People express their opinions. I don’t recall anyone other than you claiming that their life was “proof” of their opinion. If you’d like to involve Jim further in your arguments, feel free.
No one demanded it, to my knowledge.
You just did.
If someone, on a thread, makes an easily refutable statement... why shouldn't I jump in and point out their error? Isn't that what a FORUM is? A group discussion?
If you want a PRIVATE discussion amongst your little chat circle, might I suggest a Yahoo Group. You can screen members and email each other directly without involving anyone else who comes along.