I disagree.
It should be naturally understood that your college roomate is not a pervert.
It should also be grounds for expulsion if anyone on campus is later found to be a queer.
(I know. I’m living in the past. But wasn’t life better then?)
My roommate was no pervert - she was a red-blooded American girl. But still I was nearly raped one night when I was sexiled and didn’t have the refuge of my room - didn’t matter at all if it was her girlfriend or boyfriend in there.
Either both roommates agree that sex takes precedence over security and studying, or it shouldn’t be happening.
A friend of mine who’d lived a somewhat sheltered life enrolled in an expensive private school when we graduated high school; she was assigned a minority roommate as part of some liberal experiment, and told the school she’d drop out if they didn’t switch her roommate. The school considered the money involved, and switched her roommate (this was before they would just be fill their seats with foreign students anyway). I didn’t live away at school, and couldn’t imagine being in the straight roommate’s predicament here (it would be weird even if the gay one was straight and using the room for that).
I don’t consider it “living in the past”; we live in whatever we make of it, and I choose 1950.
My thought was that the homosexual lifestyle is so “cool”, wouldn’t he have been “proud” to let everyone know he was a homosexual? Why would he be so upset as to take his life? I don’t understand the motivation.